Simetimes in life, someone will do something to us that will mess is up. Now that we got messed up how should we deal with it?

Should we just blame the other person and not take responsibility for our own life, or should we accept the fact of what happened and learn how to deal with it?

I am all about learning how to accept the facts in life and learning how to take responsibility for my own life, because if I don’t take responsibility for my own life who will?